companions

Finally getting to read Friday Nasiha from YM Canada (don't ask why or how they send me stuff!). Heres something about having good companions...


The company one keeps has major effects. It may lead either to benefit and improvement or to harm and corruption, depending on whether the company is that of pure and eminent people or people who are corrupt and evil. This effect does not appear suddenly, but is a gradual process that unfolds with time.

The Messenger of God, may blessings and peace be upon him, said, "A man will be with his companions." And, "A Man's religion is that of his intimates, so let each of you consider who he becomes intimate with."

He also said: A virtuous companion is like the merchant of musk. Either he will offer you some, you will buy it from him, or you will find him pleasant to smell. But an evil companion is like the bellows-blower, either he will scorch your clothes or you will receive a rotten smell from him.

If you wish to know whether those you mix and sit with increase or diminish your faith, religion, and actions compare your state with regard to good character, praiseworthy intentions, resolution in performing acts of obedience, and goodness before and after their companionship. If you find that these acts have become stronger and more firmly established and that you have become more desirous of and interested in them, then know that this particular company is of benefit to your religion and your heart, and that if you continue with it you will gain even greater benefits and acquire many more good things, God willing.

"Knowledge and Wisdom" - by Abdullah ibn Alawi al-Haddad